Super Soft vs. Firm Silicone: How Firmness Affects Egg Toy Use

Quick Answer

For egg toys, super soft silicone (0020) gives the most squish and is ideal for gentle, pressure-free play, while medium (0050) offers more structure and is easier to insert for beginners. Soft (0030) is a balanced middle ground that many users enjoy. Your choice depends on whether you prioritize plush comfort or firmer feedback.

Egg toys are beloved for their simple shape and versatile use, but the silicone firmness you choose dramatically changes how they feel. Whether you're new to eggs or adding another to your collection, understanding super soft, soft, and medium firmness helps you pick the right one.

This FAQ answers common questions about how firmness affects egg toy use, with practical advice grounded in real product specifications. We'll also look at specific Strange Bedfellas eggs to illustrate the differences.

What does silicone firmness mean for egg toys?

Silicone firmness is measured on a Shore scale, with lower numbers meaning softer material. Super soft silicone is typically around 0020, soft around 0030, and medium around 0050. These numbers reflect how much the toy compresses under pressure, which directly impacts the sensation during use.

For egg toys, firmer silicone holds its shape better and provides more pressure against the walls, which some users prefer for a more filling feel. Softer silicone squishes more easily, allowing for comfortable wear and a gentler stretch, especially for longer sessions.

• Super soft (0020) = maximum squish, gentle pressure
• Soft (0030) = balanced plushness with a bit more structure
• Medium (0050) = firmer, holds shape, more pronounced pressure

Is super soft silicone good for egg toys?

Yes, super soft silicone is excellent for egg toys if you want a plush, almost squishy feel. It's forgiving and comfortable, making it a favorite for those who enjoy gentle fullness without intense pressure. Super soft eggs are also great for warm-up or for users with sensitivity issues.

However, super soft can be trickier to insert because it bends and folds easily. You may need to use a lubricant and guide it carefully. The trade-off is that once inside, it conforms beautifully to your body, providing a subtle, comfortable presence.

• Pros: plush, comfortable, gentle stretch
• Cons: can be floppy, requires careful insertion

What about medium or firm silicone for eggs?

Medium silicone (0050) offers more structure and is easier to insert, especially for beginners. It holds its shape better and provides more defined pressure, which can be satisfying for those who like a fuller sensation. Medium eggs are also easier to remove because they don't collapse as much.

Firm silicone (not covered in our current catalog) would be even more rigid, but it's less common for egg toys because the gentle, squishy nature of eggs is part of their appeal. If you prefer a stronger stretch, medium is a good choice, but note that it may be less comfortable for extended wear.

• Medium is easier to insert and remove
• Provides more pressure and structure
• May be less comfortable for long-term wear

How do I choose the best firmness for my first egg toy?

If you're new to egg toys, start with a soft or medium firmness. Soft (0030) offers a nice balance—plush enough to be comfortable, but with enough structure to insert easily. Medium (0050) is also beginner-friendly and gives a clearer sense of pressure.

If you're experienced or prefer a very gentle feel, super soft is a lovely option, but be prepared for a bit more fiddling during insertion. Consider your sensitivity and how you plan to use the egg—whether for short sessions or longer wear—and choose accordingly.

• Beginners: soft or medium
• Sensitivity: super soft
• Longer wear: super soft or soft

Quick Answers to Common Egg Toy Firmness Questions

Is super soft silicone too floppy for egg toys?

Super soft eggs are more flexible and can fold during insertion, but once inside, they conform comfortably. Use plenty of lubricant and insert slowly. Super soft is great for gentle use, but be patient during insertion.

What firmness is best for beginners?

Soft (0030) or medium (0050) are easier to handle because they hold their shape better. They provide a satisfying stretch without being overwhelming. Start with soft or medium for your first egg.

Can I use a firm egg toy for long wear?

Firmer eggs may become uncomfortable during extended wear because they don't compress as much. Softer silicones are usually more comfortable for longer sessions. Choose super soft or soft for all-day wear.

Real Egg Toys and Their Firmness

• Medium Batou -- Super Soft silicone -- B-3184: Firmness: Super Soft (0020). Total length: 6.5 inches, useable length: 5 inches, head diameter: 1.7 inches, widest shaft diameter: 2 inches. This super soft egg offers maximum squish, ideal for gentle use. Its moderate size makes it a good choice for those who want a plush feel without a large stretch.
• Medium Batou -- Soft silicone -- B-3241: Firmness: Soft (0030). Total length: 6.5 inches, useable length: 5 inches, head diameter: 1.7 inches, widest shaft diameter: 2 inches. The same Batou shape in soft silicone gives a bit more structure, making it easier to insert while still feeling plush. A great middle-ground option.
• Noble Vetti -- Soft silicone -- V-854: Firmness: Soft (0030). Total length: 8.5 inches, useable length: 7.25 inches, head diameter: 1.5 inches, widest shaft diameter: 3.25 inches. With a larger widest shaft diameter, this soft egg provides a fuller stretch while maintaining a comfortable, plush feel—suitable for experienced users.

Silicone firmness is a personal choice that dramatically affects how an egg toy feels. Super soft offers plush comfort, soft balances squish and structure, and medium provides firmer pressure. Consider your experience level and intended use, and don't hesitate to try different firmnesses to find your favorite.