初めてのファンタジーおもちゃ購入ガイド
By Strange Bedfellas Shop | Published: 2026-08-30
Category: Buying Guides
ファンタジートイが初めての方へ。初めての購入前に知っておきたい、サイズや硬さ、素材、お手入れ方法などのポイントをご紹介します。
So you're curious about fantasy toys. Whether you've seen them online or heard friends rave about them, taking the plunge can feel exciting and a little overwhelming. With so many shapes, sizes, and firmness options, where do you start?
This guide walks you through the basics of choosing your first fantasy toy, so you can make a confident, informed purchase that fits your comfort and experience level.
Consider Your Experience and Comfort
Before you pick a toy, think about what you're comfortable with. If you're new to insertable toys, you'll likely want something smaller and less intimidating. Start with a size that feels manageable, and remember that you can always size up later as you get more comfortable.
For beginners, a small toy like the Small Ceela or Small Tyv offers a gentle introduction. These models are designed with smooth contours and modest dimensions, making them easier to handle. Avoid starting with a toy that has extreme textures or knots if you're unsure—you can explore those features as you gain experience.
- Begin with a smaller size to build confidence.
- Look for toys with simple shapes and smooth surfaces.
- Consider your previous experience with similar products.
Choose the Right Firmness
Firmness affects how a toy feels and how easy it is to insert. Softer silicone is more forgiving and squishy, while firmer silicone provides more pressure and sensation. For a first toy, many people prefer soft or medium firmness because it's gentler on the body.
For example, the Small Tyv in soft silicone offers a plush feel, while the Medium Batou in soft silicone provides a bit more substance. If you're unsure, a medium firmness like the Small Parasite can be a versatile middle ground. Remember, softer toys are easier to bend and compress, which can help with insertion.
- Soft silicone is great for sensitive users.
- Medium firmness offers a balance of comfort and sensation.
- Firm toys are better for experienced users who like pressure.
Select a Shape That Appeals to You
Fantasy toys come in a wide variety of shapes—from sleek and tapered to curved and textured. Your choice should reflect what you find appealing and what feels comfortable. Think about whether you prefer a toy that's straight, curved, or has a bulbous head.
For beginners, a classic shape like the Small Fornax 4.0 offers a gradual taper, making it easier to insert. If you're curious about textured toys, the Large Uthur's Tongue provides a broad, flat shape that's less intense than some other designs. Don't be afraid to pick a shape that excites you—just ensure it's within your comfort zone.
- Tapered shapes are easier to insert.
- Curved toys can target different areas.
- Consider the texture level you're comfortable with.
Understand Materials and Safety
Quality fantasy toys are made from body-safe silicone, which is non-porous, hypoallergenic, and easy to clean. Always check that the toy is made from 100% platinum-cure silicone. Avoid materials like jelly or PVC, which can be unsafe.
At Strange Bedfellas, all toys are made from premium silicone, ensuring safety and durability. When you receive your toy, clean it with mild soap and water or a toy cleaner before first use. Proper care extends the life of your toy and keeps it hygienic.
- Look for 100% platinum-cure silicone.
- Clean your toy before and after each use.
- Store toys separately to avoid material interactions.
Set a Budget and Explore Accessories
Fantasy toys can range in price, so set a budget that feels right for you. Keep in mind that quality silicone toys are an investment in your pleasure and safety. Consider starting with one well-chosen toy rather than buying several at once.
You might also want to pick up accessories like the Vibe Sleeve to enhance your experience, or a cute item like the Little Beasties Squishies to add fun to your collection. These extras can make your first purchase even more enjoyable.

- Invest in quality over quantity.
- Accessories can enhance your experience.
- Check for bundle deals or discounts.
Buying your first fantasy toy is an exciting step. By considering size, firmness, shape, and safety, you'll find a toy that fits your needs and preferences. Take your time, do your research, and enjoy the journey of discovering what brings you pleasure.



